Thursday, July 14, 2011

~siapa yang bodoh?!!!~

hyeee all...ari ni Spontaneous Thursday kan?
x pa la...nanti2 la 2...skrng sya mau buat n3 tuk komen sal n3 ni>>

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sblm 2 sya mau minta maaf klau ada yg t'singgung atau n3 sya ni bikin korang panas
tp, ia hanya la komen...yg membezakannya cuma komen ini bkn men2 punya... 
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situasi 1:
(A&B : A-yang jatuh cinta, B-bf/gf/suami/isteri org)
yg x bodoh
-tp,x bgs 2 perkataan BODOH-
jatuh cinta adalah natural...bkn dpaksa @ dipupuk...
b'sama/b'kawan tuk bthn2 pun x kan jatuh cinta...klau memang dtakdirkan bgtu


kita jg x blh salahkan c B...sbab, bkn dia yg suruh c A jatuh cinta
yg menggatal 2 mungkin no komen la...mungkin c A prasan ja kali

yg bodoh
c A spatutnya cuba kawal diri, tau suda org sdh b'punya...agak2 la bha kan?
c B pun...jan la bg harapan...tau c A suka...pandai2 la jg hubungan...

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situasi 2:

(A&B : A-yang setia, B-.....)

yg x bodoh
mungkin c A x dpt lupakan c B...mungkin c B org pertama dlm hidup dia
tau jg kaaan...memang susah mau lpakan yg pertama
c B x jg bodoh sbab mungkin dia tinggalkan c A b'sbab
mungkin c B ada alasan yg mungkin mnyebabkan c B lebih sedih (faham2 la)

yg bodoh
c A ni...tolong la kuatkan iman/smngt ckit...1 lg...jan la b'hbs...
blh hidup jg 2 tanpa c B...bnyk lg org len...
tunggu xda guna jg klau memang bukan jodoh
percayalah bhw Tuhan tlh merencanakan yg terbaik untuk setiap umatnya
c B pun 1...klau skali mungkin blh 3ma lah...klau bkali-kali
(lu pk la sendiri)
bg yg suka btukar2 pasangan 2...atau yg suka menunjuk bhw kau lah yg paling bnyk couple
bgus b'taubat la...x bgs 2...pk jg prasaan org len
ingat Tuhan nak (ayat UMI)

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2 ja la...malas lg mau komen...bkn sngja mau b'jiwang...sal mau komen n3 ja ni...
x tau plak...knp panjang btul...
jan korang marah sya ar...bkn sya mau mngata sesapa
sya pun prnh dkecewakan & jg mngecewakan
klau dkecewakan, apa blh buat kan...nasib badan
klau mngecewakan, cukup la suda...
klau cinta katakanlah cinta
klau sayang katakanlah sayang
klau suka katakanlah suka
klau tidak cinta/sayang/suka
jan la pura2
k la...mau tdur suda...
gudnite all...(gdmorning bg yg bru bgn)


*thnx coz singgah...jan lupa singgah lg k...klau blh..komen la ckit...@ follow trus...hehehe




~anggau~

3 comments:

Evone Victor said...

untuk situasi 1: tidak semestinya si A yang gatal. C B pun harus sedar juga jangan menggatal dengan orang lain bila dah sedar diri tu dah ada yang punya. kadang2 bukan salah orang kedua. saya cakap kadang2 sebab ada certain situation, c B yang berabis usha c A. wlwbgmanapun, slh c A juga sbb terjatuh kat c B... Pendapat je yer En Angau.. jan marah.. :) Saya hanya mampu cakap jangan bercinta kalau rasa diri tu tidak mampu setia.

AngGau said...

serius jg...hahaha...rilex bha...

sEcretive:: said...

well.. this is only my opinion. every love story is different. some might perceive it as wrong or a total NO-NO while others may take it differently - well of course it depends on the situation.
hmm.. for situation A, it depends on both of them actually. i agree that you cant blame any party. no one should be held responsible for any mistakes done as both of them are the one who caused the probs to arise. if B is someone's else wife or husband, why shud A go for B?
but you see.. if B doesnt have any attachment with her/his bf/gf, she deserves a second chance if she/he is not happy with her/his current partner. should she/he continue her/his relationship knowing that it is an unhappy one? love is such a big responsibility. it should be thought thoroughly.

meanwhile in the 2nd situation, A should let B go.. if things really dint work out between them despite all their efforts, why suffer? just remember that God has plans for you. of course, forgetting someone is not an easy task to do. it takes time and courage to do it.

so in short, everything happens for a reason. you cant really tell whether it's right or wrong. sometimes, morally it's wrong but in terms of feelings and happiness who could say you are? just remember "dont break into someone's else house".